Friday, 8 January 2016

Negative People

In life there will always be negative people around you, trust me, there will always be. You can't get rid of all of them, they will always exist. If you deeply look around, you will find them almost everywhere in all aspect of your lives. Some you can walk away from very easily, some you can't, you simply can't because they are a part of you or they can be important to you in other aspect of life, so you learn to live with them.

Negative people are among your FRIENDS and FAMILY, yes 90% of them are. They are those who know you really well, they know your past, present, they know where you are coming from, they may have even helped you at some point. So they try to use who you are against you, talk shit behind you in public and among their peers and family, boast about what they've done and haven't done for you, try to make you feel irrelevant, and all sorts of anti-positivity behaviour.

But hey! I have a word for you, the best way to deal with them is to treat them like terms and conditions. overlook them, but keep them as distantly close as possible. Continue to be yourself and be the best of it.

Remember, “An entire sea of water can’t sink a ship unless it gets inside the ship. Similarly, the negativity of the world can’t put you down unless you allow it to get inside you.”

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Sunday, 11 January 2015

Your Life Within

You are a distinctive and individual expression of a Creative Force.  You are not a blueprint or a carbon copy or a ditto of anyone past, present, or future.  You are you and there is no one quite like you in the world.

You don't look exactly like anyone else, you don't live exactly like anyone else.  There are things you can do better than anyone else can do them, and there are qualities and talents that no one else can possess in exactly the same way that you do.  There are thoughts that are your own special revelation.  That which makes you YOU is personal, unique, and exclusive.  All of this is a reflection of a world and a life within.

Talk about how to be a success!  The successful person is simply the one who does his or her best with the things he or she can do better than anyone else.

Monday, 21 July 2014

More Than Enough

I made the above image from a tweet Mr Ayobami Oyalowo tweeted. It really struck me and those words were very true.

" I have made the choices that work best for me. I know I cannot please everyone, and that's fine" - Marlee Matlin

Wednesday, 16 July 2014

Know Your Place

Everyone of us is uniquely created, we each have the potential to make us into whatever we desire to be;  Everyone of us has something that distinguishes us from the rest. Each of us is gifted!!!

Saturday, 28 June 2014

Dear Fiona, Let That Baby Live

1. Dear Fiona, i am writing to you as regards the latest turn of things in your life.
2. I learnt you are pregnant and you are much considering a surgical abortion.
3. You were frolicking around young boys and ungodly company.