Wednesday, 20 March 2013

Rejoinder--» Life is All about survival of the fittest

{An interpretation of the phrase "survival of the fittest" to mean "only the fittest organisms will prevail". Any individual organism which succeeds in reproducing itself is "fit"}

I read through Ayobami Sholola's "#ThinkingOutLoud - My Perspective on Life" It was quite inspiring like most of my oga's posts. Clearly, I agree with almost everything he said. From the concept of being an onlooker to being a difference maker, he made some great points.

One thing that stood out from the post and which I do not agree with is when he wrote, "Life to me is not about the survival of the fittest". He described the difference maker as "those with a passion to be different, to do something new, they have visions,  they have purpose, they are goal setters, they aim to  meet the targets that’s been set," they were "warriors" "overcomers" men who have almost  gotten to the pinnacle of their lives. Like he said "They are everywhere but yet scarce". Sounds cool? Yes; it does. But my question is, why are they scarce? Why don't we have them in abundance? Oh, before you rush to crucify me, ask yourself, how does one become outstanding among the crowd?

Let me say this, YOU MUST FIGHT TO BE DIFFERENT. The road to the top is narrow and only those who fights and in this context, only those who are "fit" will make it to the top.  Listen to the words of Anne frank "The weak die out and the strong will survive, and will live on forever.”Your survival in the race to succeed isn't just for you to be "fit", but I dare say that you must be FIT ENOUGH. And hear this again, you must be better equipped for surviving.

“The spirit finds a way to be born. Instinct seeks for ways to survive.”― Toba Beta

You must possess all the strength - physical and mental smartness to survive in this world. The reason most people after a Bsc, go for a Masters, PhDs, etc is simply because the world itself is all about competition for the few available choice resources and positions. It is "likely" that the more qualified you are, the more your chances of getting what you want.

"Almost all 'difference makers' were once onlookers, but what distinguished them is their hunger," he said. It was their instinct for survival that created the hunger, and how do they distinguished themselves? By being fit enough for a world of competition. Go back to be basics and build yourself, because you will need all the strength you can get to survive in this world.

Why and what is it that makes one survive and succeed no matter what the circumstance?  This is for you to answer.

 Life as a matter of fact is not only about Survival of the fittest but Survival of the fittest enough.

I am @famuyideolawale
I am a Reader, not a Writer.

Note: I have only tried to pen down my opinion, if you feel you have another angle, please feel free to contact the admin.


  1. Nice writeup,its truly the survival of the fittest,because in Nigeria today,the higher you go,the better you become which goes in line with the saying that"The reason most people after a Bsc, go for a Masters, PhDs, etc is simply because the world itself is all about competition for the few available choice resources and positions. It is "likely" that the more qualified you are, the more your chances of getting what you want".its all about what you can offer in life(sacrifice)in other to get what you want.keep the good work going Mr Famuyide.its a nice one.

  2. Hmmmmm.........I totally agree with this.

    "Almost all 'difference makers' were once onlookers, but what distinguished them is their hunger,"......and may I add - and how far they were willing to go to get that hunger satisfied-. The seeker always finds! but it takes a lot of guts to be a seeker! a whole lot of guts!

    This has a lot of depths in it. You got me thinking hard. Thank you.

  3. Tomisin Ajiboye:

    Dear Mr. Reader, I may not totally agree with your point of analysis neither will I disagree with it. I will rather challenge you to it because of my different perspective I craved. One thing I am sure of is that 'weakness and limitation only exist in our mind as a result of variables around us. Let me reply your rejoinder in my next write up.
    Salient points sir!

  4. LMAO.... Another rejoinder coming from my Uncle soon....

  5. Abiola Oyeniran20 March 2013 at 12:53

    In the race of life only the strong survive, so if you want to be a difference maker u need your wit and strength about you. Thank you sir for taking time out of your reading to write this + I like ur disclaimer.

  6. "I am @famuyideolawale
    I am a reader not a writer"

    Hmmm...... I wonder what will come out of the barrel of your pen when you actually become a Writer......

    Nice write up. Inspiring and true to life.

  7. good read but may I add my little honest opinion, different people dont strive or fight to be different or should I say we shouldn't fight to be different, like no 2 snow flake alike we are made differently. I think the we ought just be ourselves as created by God. The difference is essentially in the BE-ing.

  8. I disagree to an extent,life being the survival of the fittest using the PHd/masters for example is subjective. It's not on a world scale. You don't need all that to be somebody in most developed countries. If your statement is totally true,how come some people with all d above listed qualifications still remain a failure/unsuccessful. To my best of knowledge,I believe if you make it a competition you might succeed--'might'but if you treat it the other way,you won't only succeed,you shall become an exceptional success itself.

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  43. فصل الصيف واحد من امتع الفصول في السنه خاصة في المدن الساحلية والمسابح الخاصه والعامه الكثير من الناس ان لم يكون جميعا يذهب الي المسابح والشواطئ للاستمتاع بالسباحه والميه والهروب من حر الصيف لذلك يجب تنظيف المسابح بشكل دوري حفاظا علي الزائرين
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    الشعيرات التى تسقط من الاشخاص داخل الحمام لذلك في هذا المقال سوف نشرح كيفيه تنظيف المسابح للحفاظ عليها زعلي الزائرين والمترددين عليهشركة تنظيف مسابح بالرياض
    1 تحديد اماكن التلوث
    هناك العديد من الأسباب لظهور التلوث في المسابح، تحديد التلوث هو أول خطوة للقضاء عليه، عادة يتم تحديد السبب بناء على لون وشكل البقعة، والتي غالباً ما تكون مزيج من لونين معاً كالأخضر والنبي، الأحمر والأزرق، الأحمر الوردي، البني
    2 تنقسم الملوثات الي قسمين رئيسيين
    الاول : هو الملوث العضوىافضل شركة تنظيف مسابح بالرياض
    وهو الذي ينشاء من فضلات الانسان والحيوانات داخل المسبح وايضا ورقات الشجر التى تتساقط داخل المسبح مما يجعله يحتوى علي الكثير من مسببات الأمراض ولكن طريقه تنظيف المسبح من الملوث العضوى اسهل بكثير
    من الملوث المعدنى حيث ان عند اضافه الكلور فقط علي أماكن الملوث العضوى تبدا البقع بالاختفاء عكس الملوث المعدنى الذى لا يتاثر بالكلور
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    نقوم اولا بنزع المسبب للبقع من المسبح مثل انتزاع اوراق الشجر خارج المسبح از الطحالب الموجوده داخل المسبح التي سقطت في المياه وغرقت في القاع، لذلك إزالتها أهم جزء من العلاج، لو تم اكتشافها في البداية ستكون إزالتها سهلة، لكن لو تركتها مدة طويلة أو لم تقوم سريعا بتنظيفها فور حدوثها قد يتغير لون المسبح بالكامل،
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    خاصة لو كانت البقع قديمة واصبح ليس سهلا إزالتها، في هذه الحالة لابد من استخدام مادة حامضية للتخلص من البقع أو اي تغير لون المسبح في الحوض،
    لو كان الجزء الداخلي منه مصنوع من الجبس فيجب إزالة طبقة رقيقة جداً من الجبس لاستعادة لونه الناصع مرة أخرى، بشكل عام لن تُضطر
    لتكرار هذه العملية إلا كل اربع سنوات، لو كنت تُحافظ على نظافة مسبحك باستمرار. استخدم منظف إنزيمي المنظفات الإنزيمية تُساعد على التخلص من البقع العضوية بسهولة، يُمكنك استخدام منظفات تُجارية ذات قاعدة إنزيمية، أو حتى استخدم الخميرة لو لم تستطع الحصول على
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    من اي ملوث عضوى ولا تنسي اعطاء التعليمات للزائرين بعدم استخدام الاساليب الغير اداميه من تبول في الماء وعدم الاستحمام قبل النزول الي المسبح فيجب علي كل زائر الاعتناء
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    تمتلك شركتنا شركه زين لتنظيف المسابح بالرياض احدث وافضل الاساليب لتنظيف المسابح حيث نقوم بتفريغ المسبح من الماء كاملا ثم تنظيف البقع العضويه والمعدنيه باحدث الطرق واقوى المعدات
    ثم التنظيف بالمواد الكيميائيه التى لا تؤثرا نهائيا علي جدران المسبح ولا الارضيه لذلك نحن نمتلك خبره واسعه في هذا المجال مما يجعل عملنا هو من يتحدث عنا
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