Friday, 8 January 2016

Negative People


In life there will always be negative people around you, trust me, there will always be. You can't get rid of all of them, they will always exist. If you deeply look around, you will find them almost everywhere in all aspect of your lives. Some you can walk away from very easily, some you can't, you simply can't because they are a part of you or they can be important to you in other aspect of life, so you learn to live with them.

Negative people are among your FRIENDS and FAMILY, yes 90% of them are. They are those who know you really well, they know your past, present, they know where you are coming from, they may have even helped you at some point. So they try to use who you are against you, talk shit behind you in public and among their peers and family, boast about what they've done and haven't done for you, try to make you feel irrelevant, and all sorts of anti-positivity behaviour.

But hey! I have a word for you, the best way to deal with them is to treat them like terms and conditions. overlook them, but keep them as distantly close as possible. Continue to be yourself and be the best of it.

Remember, “An entire sea of water can’t sink a ship unless it gets inside the ship. Similarly, the negativity of the world can’t put you down unless you allow it to get inside you.”

Twitter & Instagram- @ayosholola

30 comments:

  1. This comment has been removed by the author.

    ReplyDelete